This week has been much quieter from the point of view of having fewer social activities planned. Enjoyed a coffee in the garden in 24 degrees this morning – on a Bank Holiday Monday too!
I have some support to assist me in doing the sort of everyday things that most people can do without any difficulties – my disability affects my dexterity, limits my mobility and my reach. As I get older (63 next month!) I am slowing down more and more. If only my ageing body were able to achieve all the things I plan in my head! That’s where the valuable practical support provided by my wonderful PA Sam (Samantha) comes in handy.
Two mornings a week, I spend three hours working alongside Sam, who is a human whirlwind. She helps me cook, clean, do the laundry, recycling… and this week also some sewing repairs and a trip to get my car cleaned inside and out. I find myself feeling exhausted after she’s been, but in a very fulfilled way. Sam came to work for me shortly after the Covid lockdown in July 2020. We work well together.
My sister also works to support me and spends a day with me every other week. This is wonderful, because as well as having support for more time-consuming tasks (pruning roses, trip to the recycling centre with a car load of rubbish…), we get to exchange news and have a proper chat, putting the world to rights.
I love spending time with my sisters. I have two of them. We have come to recognise in recent years that the close relationship we enjoy as sisters isn’t what most families have. We are very close in age (three years between oldest and youngest), all of us have quite different personalities, and each has very different strengths and weaknesses. The most important thing we share is solidarity and honesty. I would do anything for my sisters, and they would do the same for me. We acknowledge and celebrate our differences. Together, we create a formidable team that works well together, working collaboratively to support our Mum, who is 90 and has dementia but still lives in her own home. More importantly, we support one another.
Back to Mounjaro. Side effects…. I’d be interested to hear whether anyone else using Mounjaro has vivid dreams? My dreams are wild and wacky and often involve traumatic events! I’m always glad to wake up to the fact that it was all just a dream. Perhaps it’s because I’ve been waking at around 4-5 am, and then drift back into a restless REM sleep. My dreams involve total strangers, but I can see these people in vivid detail. This may well be down to the medication. Thankfully, they don’t leave me too traumatised, and I do wake up feeling refreshed.
One social event this week – a trip to a local venue, Park House, which is close by on the University of Reading campus. A lovely old house with plenty of outdoor seating. It’s always busy, but mostly university staff and members of the public, rather than students (and often large social groups).
My choice of food was a puy lentil, quinoa, lemon & sumac salad with seared rump steak. Although the description sounded good, the food sadly didn’t match up. Thankfully the company was excellent! I drank 2 pints of stout which made up for the disappointing meal!
There were around 12 of us altogether and the conversation was good – gardening, travel, food loves (and hates). Bees and bee propolis. I was given a jar of honey by one lady who has bee hives, and some propolis was delivered the following day to allow my partner to make a propolis tincture. Propolis has anti-viral, anti-inflammatory and anti-microbial properties. In return for the propolis, she’ll get a bottle of the tincture he makes.
My final week on 7.5mg, my 10g pen is in the fridge; I’ll be taking my first dose today.
Weight loss progress – a week ago I was 65.6kg (10 stone 3lbs) and today at weigh-in I was 64.1kg (10st 1b), so a loss of 1.5kg. Total loss of 7.2kg and over halfway to my goal weight of 57kg.


I’ve not got as many images to share this week as I ate out a lot…. I feel it a little anti-social to start photographing one’s food. But it was all delicious.

Wow, this was a social week! I’m not used to eating out very often, but the next couple of weeks are quite full-on in terms of being away from home and eating meals out.
Together with others, we established a national organisation (charity) to support disabled people who were or who were planning to be parents. That’s not “parents of disabled children” but where the parents themselves face challenges and barriers because of their impairments. Being a new parent is challenging enough without the added complication of an impairment.
After my Blog post last week, where I expressed my slight disappointment about the lack of movement on the scales, I thought it would be prudent to take body measurements. I’m so pleased that I did! Whilst the scales haven’t moved much in the past month, the inches (or centimetres) are disappearing.

