Another quiet week. Again, I still don’t feel 100%. Whatever this virus is, I continue to feel exhausted with even minimal exertion. But life goes on. The good thing is that I’ve been sleeping well at night.
Speaking of sleeping well, on Monday, after my visit to Sweden, where I slept in possibly the most comfortable bed ever, we went off in search of a new bed.
I dread to think how much I’ve spent on beds and mattresses over the past ten or fifteen years. Let’s just say there have been quite a few changes! It’s all been about trying to find something that leaves me pain-free at night. I routinely get pain in my left hip, but lying on my right side isn’t particularly comfortable either, so I often end up taking some sort of painkiller in the middle of the night just to get me through.
However, the bed in Sweden was so comfortable that when I got home, I started doing a lot of research into why. One thing I discovered, which I’d never really thought about before, is that a lighter person generally needs a softer mattress. Which, when you think about it, makes absolute sense. At my weight, the recommendation seems to be for a soft mattress.
Apparently, there is also a cultural preference here in the UK for believing a firmer mattress is better for you. Whilst I wouldn’t describe our current mattress as particularly firm, it is firmer than the one I’d been sleeping on in Sweden – and that had given me some wonderfully comfortable nights.
We chose a very exclusive bed shop, rather than your typical high-street store, so I wasn’t expecting this to be a cheap purchase!
There were also a few practical things to consider. The bed height is particularly important when you’re only four foot eight, and almost as soon as we walked into the shop, I could see that might be a problem. We stopped beside what was probably the lowest bed in the entire shop and started chatting to the manager about what I needed—and what Mike needed too, because he prefers a firmer mattress and hadn’t found the beds in Sweden nearly as comfortable as I had.
As luck would have it, the bed we’d stopped beside—the one low enough for me to get on and off—had a mattress that could be made with different firmness levels on each side. One side was soft and the other medium. Better still, the soft side was on the side of the bed I normally sleep on.
On we hopped.
And I have to say, it was very, very comfortable. In fact, I kept chatting about my requirements while lying there, happily enjoying the luxury!
Then we moved on to the slightly less comfortable subject of price.
Naturally, I’d been careful to give the manager a ceiling budget considerably lower than what I might have been prepared to spend.
He then explained that the mattress I’d just been luxuriating on – without the bed – already cost more than my entire stated budget.
Oops.
He moved a few mattresses around and had me try an alternative that was more comfortable than the mattress we have at home, but nowhere near the comfort I’d just been enjoying on the very expensive one.
Hey ho.
He said he’d go away, crunch a few numbers and see what sort of deal he could come up with for us.
I suspect my carefully understated ceiling budget may be in some danger!
Anyway, to cut a long story short, I ended up buying the very expensive mattress—and the base it was sitting on!
The important thing about this base wasn’t just its height, though that obviously mattered to me. It was also a sprung base rather than a solid one, so effectively there’s another layer of cushioning underneath the mattress, adding to the overall comfort.
The new bed should arrive in about three weeks, and then we’ll find out whether it gives me the luxurious, pain-free night’s sleep I’m so longing for.
It certainly should do for the price I paid!
Thankfully, I can exchange the mattress if I’m not entirely happy with it within the first 100 days after delivery. So I’ll have plenty of time to decide whether all that luxury was really worth the money.
I’m keeping everything crossed that it is!
And that was about the extent of this week’s excitement!
Oh, apart from Sam returning to work after having two weeks off. It was really lovely to have her back, and we both admitted how much we’d missed each other. Normal service has resumed!
So, on to Mounjaro and my weight.
I’m still taking 7.5 mg of Mounjaro every seven days and, to be honest, I am beginning to notice some appetite suppression. Weirdly, though, unlike the last time I was taking Mounjaro, my chocolate cravings don’t seem to have disappeared – which is rather disappointing!
I’ll just have to resort to the tried-and-tested method of keeping it out of the house. If it’s not there, I can’t eat it!
So, my weight update for this week is as follows:
Weight this week: 55.35 kg (8 stone 9 lbs)
Weight last week: 55.50 kg (8 stone 9¼ lbs)
Weekly loss: 0.15 kg (⅓ lb)
100% – 7 months, 30 days in weight maintenance range (54 – 57kg or 8st 7lb – 8st 13lbs)

My talk was all about my experience of volunteering. Unfortunately, my slot coincided with a choir performing elsewhere, so my audience was just four people! Nevertheless, the talk went down well, and I really didn’t mind popping into town to do something that required very little effort from me.


This will be a very short blog post, as I’m currently travelling in Copenhagen and Helsingborg, Sweden. I thought it would be useful just to touch base, though, in case you are eagerly anticipating my usual weekly blog post. I wouldn’t want to let you down!


The week started off looking rather frantic, with visitors planned for three days running. However, for completely different reasons, the first two visits were postponed. And I have to admit, I was actually quite pleased!
I think she enjoyed herself nonetheless, and actually having a smaller group worked rather well because we could all sit around one table and hear what everyone else was saying.
My week began with a jolt. I’ve spent hours recently helping a wheelchair-using friend who is visiting London from Australia in October. She’ll be spending 12 nights in the capital and asked me to help her find a good accessible hotel in a convenient location from which to explore London.



If I had to talk about the things that contribute to my own sense of wellbeing and good mental health, being involved with my local community would definitely be right up there. Working alongside other people to make improvements, particularly when you can actually stand back afterwards and immediately see what you’ve achieved together, is enormously satisfying.










