Builders, Birthdays and a Bit of Hadestown

This week has been quiet, but full of activity. How does that work, you might ask?

Well, we’re having our utility room refurbished.

It was originally fitted out 21 years ago, at a time when I was still recovering from a serious road traffic accident and was pretty immobile (non-weightbearing). We completely reconfigured the downstairs to make it more accessible for me, including adding a downstairs bathroom and toilet. The kitchen/diner was moved to the opposite side of the house, and the space where the kitchen had originally been was divided up to create a wet room and utility room.

At the time, I really wasn’t in a position to take much interest in the work being done, so I left a lot of the decisions to the builders. They were a family-run company – two fathers and their sons – and seemed to spend a considerable amount of their time arguing with one another! I mostly kept out of their way and got on with my injury recovery.

The result was that some of the finishing touches were, let’s just say, not ideal!

For example, the worktop in the utility room was installed about 6cm higher than the washing machine and tumble dryer underneath it. That might be completely inconsequential if I were very tall.

But I’m not.

I’m 4ft 8in, with short arms, so that extra 6cm makes an enormous difference when I’m trying to reach into the sink!

New wall units in place

The cupboards had also gradually started falling apart. I don’t think they were particularly expensive ones in the first place and, after 21 years, they’d certainly done their time. So, the moment had finally come to replace everything.

I decided to try to keep the refurbishment as simple as possible. I’m keeping the original sink, the safety flooring is staying – not least because it covers a manhole – and the basic layout remains largely unchanged. We’re really just replacing all the units and, most importantly, bringing the worktop down to a height that actually works for me.

Of course, “just replacing the units” turns out to be more complicated than it sounds! There’s been lots of hole-cutting for pipes and electrical sockets; the electricity has been on and off at regular intervals and, at one point, so was the water.

It has also meant getting up and organised early every morning, ready for the builder arriving at 8am.

The work is progressing really well, although there’s still a little way to go.

I was due to have a friend visiting on Monday, but she called off. As it turned out, that was probably just as well. There was no room for her to park in the driveway, and it was a particularly noisy day, with the demolition of the old cupboards taking place.

I also managed to get rid of my old cooker hood, which I mentioned in an earlier post, along with a dehumidifier that had been sitting in the utility room but was never actually used. Both have been recycled and gone off to new homes.

Even the old kitchen units have found another use. They’ve gone off to live in a barn where, I’m told, they’ll be filled with chicken paraphernalia – feed, bedding and the like! I’m really pleased that so much of what we no longer need will be reused rather than simply thrown away.

I’d actually booked two slots at the tip in anticipation of having loads of rubbish to dispose of, but thankfully didn’t need either of them. That was particularly welcome given how ridiculously hot it has been here, with temperatures reaching as high as 38°C on a couple of days.

On Wednesday, my sister came to work for me as usual and stayed overnight because on Thursday I was taking her to London for her birthday treat.  The night before our London trip, I’d actually arranged another little surprise outing for her. We went to the IMAX cinema for one of their “secret screenings”, where you book your tickets knowing absolutely nothing about the film you’re going to see other than its age rating. I rather like the idea — you could end up watching something you’d never normally have chosen for yourself! On this occasion, our mystery film turned out to be Tony, a new biographical drama about the early life of chef, writer and TV personality Anthony Bourdain. It follows 19-year-old Bourdain as he heads to Provincetown and rather accidentally finds himself working in the chaotic world of a restaurant kitchen — a summer which ultimately sets him on the path that will shape the rest of his life. We really enjoyed it, and given the heat outside, it was absolutely wonderful to spend a couple of hours in a beautifully air-conditioned cinema! Meanwhile, almost everyone else seemed to be outside in the blazing sunshine watching the solar eclipse. We may have missed the celestial event, but I think we probably had the cooler option! 😂

I’d booked us lunch at The Ivy in Soho, followed by a trip to see Hadestown at the Lyric Theatre on Shaftesbury Avenue.

Love the old theatres – we are so fortunate to have so many of them!

It was a VERY hot day, but everything went perfectly.

There was an added bonus when I discovered that parking at the Royal Festival Hall is now free for Blue Badge holders. There were plenty of vacant spaces too and, being underground, the car stayed beautifully cool for the duration of our day — a definite bonus in that heat!

Once we’d parked, we were able to use the toilet facilities in the Royal Festival Hall before heading across the river towards Soho, wandering through Chinatown on our way to the restaurant.

Lunch at The Ivy was excellent. I made some pretty sensible choices too. For my main course, I had an 8oz sirloin steak with green beans and a heritage tomato salad, and we shared a dessert that was basically raspberry sorbet.

Then it was on to the theatre.

My sister absolutely loved Hadestown. It was a full house, and there was an incredible amount of talent on that stage, both in terms of the acting and the singing. If you get the opportunity to see it, I’d definitely recommend it.

On Saturday, I had a friend over for lunch and, given the continuing hot weather, kept things fairly light. We had a prawn salad with a really simple dressing made from lime, olive oil, black pepper and a little maple syrup.

We did, however, indulge in dessert in the form of a pistachio and almond ice-cream bomb which, from memory, came in at around 220 calories. Very nice it was too!

So I’m now getting through my final week on Wegovy before moving back to Mounjaro next Friday.

I have to say, I’m really looking forward to it.

I’m still experiencing zero appetite suppression from Wegovy, and the food noise has been totally overwhelming. I think I’ve managed to stay within my calorie allowance on most days, but it’s taken real effort.

It’s certainly reminded me how much of a difference effective appetite suppression and the absence of food noise can make. I know I can resist temptation and stick to my calorie allowance — I’ve been doing this for a very long time — but constantly battling those thoughts about food is exhausting.

I’m hoping that moving back to Mounjaro will give me back the helping hand that I know it gave me before.

Anyway, on to this week’s weigh-in…

Weight this week: 55.75kg (8st 11lbs)
Weight last week: 56.10kg (8st 11.6lbs)

Weekly loss/gain: -0.35kg (-1lb)
100% – 6 months 5 days in weight maintenance range (54 – 57kg or 8st 7lb – 8st 13lbs)

A Week of Tea, Cake and Talking Heads

So, what have I been up to this week?

It feels as though it’s been a fairly quiet one, although that’s probably because my mum has been having radiotherapy at our local hospital every day this week. I’ve been on standby for several of the appointments, ready to step in as driver and chaperone if needed. As it turned out, my services weren’t required, but on three of the days we invited Mum and whoever had accompanied her back to ours afterwards for tea and cake – and lunch on one occasion. We’re ideally placed, as our house is only a 10-minute walk or five-minute drive from the hospital, so it made a nice little pit stop after her treatment.

It was my way of trying to make the whole experience just a little more enjoyable and bearable – and it seemed to work rather well. There aren’t many things in life that can’t be improved by tea and cake!  And of course, the chance for my Mum to see us (she lives about a 30-minute drive away).

The only real excitement this week was a trip to the cinema.

My other half loves his music, particularly New Order, The Cars and Talking Heads. He also has a rather large soft spot for Bryan Ferry and can frequently be heard crooning along whenever one of his songs comes on the radio or Apple Music. Somehow, all of Mike’s “favourites” seem to have mysteriously repopulated my music playlists too. I can’t imagine how that happened!

While checking what was showing at our local cinema, I spotted a one-off screening of David Byrne’s American Utopia, a filmed stage performance featuring the former Talking Heads frontman.

I asked Mike if he fancied going.

He wasn’t particularly bothered.

This is fairly typical of him — he hates me organising too many things (even when they’re things I’ve arranged with him in mind), although he nearly always ends up enjoying himself once I’ve managed to persuade him to actually go!

Another attraction was that I have a CEA Card, which means that when I buy a cinema ticket, the person accompanying me can go in free. So, essentially, two of us get to see the film for the price of one.

Eventually, I talked him into it – and, my goodness, I’m glad I did.

It was showing on one of the smaller screens at our local Showcase Cinema and was absolutely packed, except for two or three wheelchair spaces left. In fact, I had no choice but to stay in my wheelchair because those were the only spaces left.

That actually suited me perfectly. I don’t find those enormous reclining cinema seats particularly comfortable anyway – they’re certainly not designed with my rather unique physique in mind!

Before long, Mike was thoroughly engrossed and singing along, much to my embarrassment. He absolutely loved it, so I felt happy that I’d persevered and booked the tickets.

We’re apparently heading into another spell of very hot weather over the coming days, so I’m preparing accordingly.

I’ve bought some ready-made kebabs from Waitrose, which we’ll have with simple tomato and cucumber salads. We’re also harvesting our autumn raspberries at the moment, so plenty of those are being eaten.

And I’ve continued making batches of my green bean salad with mustard vinaigrette. It’s absolutely delicious and contains a generous helping of garlic, which, let’s face it, improves almost everything!

When it’s really hot, the last thing I want to do is spend ages preparing food or standing over a hot hob, so having tasty things ready to go makes life much easier.

And Wegovy?

Absolutely no change.

No noticeable appetite suppression and, unfortunately, the food noise continues to be a real menace.

After giving Wegovy a fair try, it’s become pretty clear it simply isn’t having the same effect on me that Mounjaro did. I know everyone responds differently to these medications, but for me there really has been no comparison.

So I’m now counting down the couple of weeks until my Mounjaro arrives. My plan is to restart cautiously, see how I respond, and adjust from there.

I’m actually looking forward to finding out whether returning to Mounjaro restores the appetite suppression and freedom from food noise I had before. I certainly hope so!

And finally, after another week of managing my appetite largely under my own steam, here’s my weight update…

Weight this week: 56.10kg (8st 11.6lbs)
Weight last week: 55.75kg (8st 11lbs)

Weekly loss/gain: +0.35kg (+1lb)
100% – 5 months 28 days in weight maintenance range (54 – 57kg or 8st 7lb – 8st 13lbs)

A Hot Tub, Heathland and a 70th Birthday Surprise

We’re back after our little trip away to celebrate Mike’s 70th birthday!

We headed down to the New Forest, about an hour and a half’s drive from home, where I’d booked us into a Finnish-style log cabin on the edge of the forest. The real selling point? A wood-fired hot tub!

Before checking into our accommodation, we stopped off at Highcliffe Castle on the coast. It’s really more of a stately home than a castle, but I’d discovered it had an accessible pathway leading all the way down to the beach, which immediately put it on my list of places to visit.

We’d kept lunch simple, taking a packed lunch from Waitrose, and enjoyed it sitting on the beach with wonderful views across to the Isle of Wight and The Needles.

Highcliffe Beach
Highcliffe Castle

Afterwards we treated ourselves to tea and cake at the castle before making our way through the New Forest to our cabin, passing ponies, cattle and beautiful heathland scenery along the way.

The journey wasn’t entirely relaxing, though! It included a couple of rather hairy junctions where we had to pull out onto a fast-moving dual carriageway. Thankfully we both survived!

When we arrived, the owner showed us around the cabin and pointed out all the important things, including where to find the water hose in the unlikely event of a fire. Given the exceptionally dry weather we’ve been having, it was a sensible precaution.

Once we’d settled in, Mike set about firing up the wood-fired hot tub. It eventually reached the recommended temperature of 40°C. Personally, I found that just a little too warm! Getting into the tub wasn’t exactly easy with my disability, but getting back out again was on a completely different level. Thankfully, by taking things slowly and carefully, I managed it safely.

Easier to get into than out! But an amazing experience.

The following day we visited Exbury Gardens before heading on to nearby Buckler’s Hard, a fascinating historic shipbuilding village on the banks of the River Beaulieu.

Bucklers Hard

By chance, we arrived during a week-long archaeological excavation. Volunteers were carefully searching the mud and silt along the ancient slipway, uncovering artefacts that had lain hidden for centuries. It was fascinating to see the finds emerge from the mud.

That said, looking at the volunteers working all day in the blazing sunshine, covered from head to toe in mud, I have to admit I wasn’t tempted to swap places with them!

Back at the cabin we enjoyed a relaxed barbecue. I’d gone well prepared, taking several salads I’d made at home beforehand, so there was very little food preparation to do. That’s always a bonus because I find cooking in an unfamiliar kitchen much harder than in my own adapted one.

Barbequed steak, green bean salad, tomato and cucumber salad, olives and tzatziki
Barbequed Cumberland chipolatas, green bean salad, tomato and cucumber salad, olives and tzatziki

Our final morning was wonderfully relaxed. Mike had hoped to squeeze in one last soak in the hot tub, but despite being left overnight, the water was still over 43°C – far too hot to climb into! So we packed up instead, left at 10 o’clock, and were back home by midday, conveniently avoiding all the rush-hour traffic.

It was a lovely few days away and a wonderful way to celebrate a very special birthday. Sometimes you don’t need to travel hundreds of miles to feel as though you’ve had a proper break.

As for Wegovy, I have to admit I’m feeling rather disappointed.

I’ve now been taking it for five to six weeks and, if I’m honest, I don’t feel it’s really doing anything for me. Unlike Mounjaro, I’m finding that my appetite is much the same as it was before, and the food noise has never really gone away.

I’ve spoken to Voy, my provider, about switching back to Mounjaro. Their advice was that once I’ve finished this current 0.5 mg pen, I can move back to 5 mg of Mounjaro, which is exactly what I intend to do.

I know these medications affect everyone differently, and many people have fantastic results with Wegovy. Unfortunately, I don’t seem to be one of them. Whilst Wegovy is a little cheaper, any saving is quickly outweighed if it isn’t effectively controlling my appetite and food noise. For me, Mounjaro simply worked far better.

So… how did I get on with my weight this week?

Our little break away did include both cake and an ice cream. However, we tried to be sensible. Whenever we had cake, Mike and I shared a single slice, which immediately halved the calories without making us feel as though we were missing out. Apart from those little treats, we ate as we normally would, with packed lunches, prepared salads and a barbecue back at the cabin.

So, despite a few holiday indulgences, here’s where my weight stands today…

Weight this week: 55.75kg (8st 11lbs)
Weight last week: 56.1kg (8st 12lbs)

Weekly loss/gain: -0.35kg (-1lb)
100% – 5 months 21 days in weight maintenance range (54 – 57kg or 8st 7lb – 8st 13lbs)

Good Food, Good Friends… and a Little More Patience

Thank goodness this week has been a little cooler! The sunshine has been enjoyable again rather than unbearable.

On Monday I met some girlfriends for lunch at our regular venue – a lovely pub that serves really tasty, beautifully presented food. It’s a little more expensive than your average pub meal, but the chef there clearly knows what they’re doing. I chose a guilt-head bream fillet, served with a delicious potato terrine, samphire, and a courgette and asparagus side with heritage tomatoes and – rather unexpectedly – cubes of grilled feta. It seemed like a very odd combination, but it actually worked incredibly well!  The meal certainly didn’t disappoint!

Later in the week, I invited a friend over for lunch. We’ve known each other since primary school and also went to the same secondary school, so we’ve probably been friends since we were about nine years old! Although we don’t see each other very often because life gets busy, whenever we do meet up, we always have plenty to chat about as we catch up on family news and everything that’s happened since our last get-together.

With Sam’s support, I prepared a homemade pizza topped with mozzarella, olives, sliced courgette, peppers and grated cheese. The pizza base is made from a simple mixture of Greek yoghurt and self-raising flour – no oil or water required. Having shortened arms, rolling out dough is quite a challenge for me, and I usually end up wearing as much of it as actually makes it onto the baking tray.

My right-hand woman, Sam, is off on holiday for the next couple of weeks, so I plan to keep my meals a little simpler while she’s away. It will be a good opportunity to remind myself that healthy eating doesn’t have to involve complicated recipes or a lot of food prep.

Indeed, this weather certainly means plenty of salads, and as my other half (Mike) is harvesting cucumbers, tomatoes, and green beans from our garden at present, I’ve been making a regular delicious cucumber, red onion and tomato salad dressed with olive oil, red wine vinegar, as well as a green bean salad with a garlic mustard vinaigrette dressing.

There’s something very satisfying about growing your own fruit and vegetables. Picked fresh and eaten at their best, they’re packed with flavour in a way that supermarket produce rarely manages to match.

Wegovy update: I’ve now taken my fourth and final 0.25mg dose and… let’s just say I’m really looking forward to moving up to the next dose next week! At the moment, I’m still having to make a conscious effort to keep my appetite under control, so I’m hoping the increase will provide a little more support

As for my weight, the good news is that I’m still within my maintenance range.

I’m quietly hoping with Wegovy’s assistance, next week I hope to be moving back towards the middle of that range rather than teetering towards the top of it!

As always, one week at a time…

Weight this week: 55.95kg (8st 11.3lbs)
Weight last week: 56.1kg (8st 11.6lbs)

Weekly loss/gain: -0.15kg (-5.3ozs)
100% – 5 months 7 days in weight maintenance range (54 – 57kg or 8st 7lb – 8st 13lbs)

 

Courgette, Feta, pea and mint savoury cake – 212 calories

I think I may have saved the best until last.

I describe this as a savoury cake, although it could just as easily be called a quiche – just rather less eggy, with the courgette giving it structure, texture and substance.

The combination of peas and mint works so beautifully together, bringing freshness and sweetness, whilst the feta adds little bursts of salty tanginess throughout. The tomatoes on top not only add colour, but once roasted, their flavour becomes wonderfully rich and intense too.

I nearly always make the larger version because it freezes so well. Individual slices can be taken out and defrosted in just a few moments, making it incredibly handy to have on standby for days when you are tired, busy, or simply not feeling your best. Served with salad, it is practically a meal in itself.

Over the years, I have made many different versions of this courgette savoury cake, experimenting with all sorts of flavour combinations, but this pea, mint and feta version remains my absolute favourite.

Courgette, Feta, pea and mint savoury cake – 212 calories

Preparation Time:        10 mins

Cooking Time:              35 mins

Serves:                            12

Calories per serving:   212.3

 

Ingredients

Courgette                                                              –  500g

Eggs, Free Range, Medium                                    –  6 Eggs/310.2g

Cherry Tomatoes                                                   –  6 Tomatoes/90g

Baking Powder                                                      –  1 Tsp/2g

Extra Virgin Olive Oil                                              –  110ml

Spelt Wholegrain Flour                                           –  120g

Feta Cheese                                                          –  200g

Frozen peas                                                          –  100g

Mint leaves                                                            –  3 Tbsps/4.8g

 

Method

Heat oven to 180 degrees.

Trim and coarsely grate the courgette – no need to drain. Halve the baby tomatoes. Wash and roughly chop the mint. In a large bowl, beat the eggs.

Add the flour (sifted) and baking powder to the eggs.

Add Feta cheese (chopped or crumbled).

Add the remaining ingredients (except courgette and mint) and mix well. Add grated courgette – mix well into the mixture.

Pour into a very well-greased shallow baking dish.  You may wish to line the tin or baking dish with greaseproof paper, which makes removing individual slices much easier.

Halve the tomatoes and use these to garnish the top.

Cook for 30-35 minutes (until firm to the touch in the centre).

 

Nutrition Data Per Serving

Calories (kcal)              212.3

Protein (g)                        8.4

Carbohydrate (g)            8.2

Fat (g)                             16.3

Fibre (g)                           1.9

Fruit & Veg                     0.8

Roasted butternut squash & Bulgar Salad – 120 calories

This is another go-to recipe that I make often, and it always goes down well when I serve it for lunch with friends. It’s also ideal for preparing in advance, as it transports easily and keeps well in the fridge for several days in a sealed container.

The flavours in this dish work really well together. I can’t actually remember how I first came up with the combination, but like many of my recipes, it has gradually evolved over time through experimenting with different ingredients and quantities. I’ve also added aubergine, mushrooms and green beans at different times, and they all worked really well. You can also crumble some Feta over the salad once it has cooled.

Sumac brings a distinctive sharpness and freshness — a tangy, lemony flavour that instantly brightens salads and savoury dishes. Made from dried and ground berries, it has a beautiful, deep reddish-purple colour that adds warmth and vibrancy to the finished dish.

The tamarind adds a different flavour again. It has a sweet-and-sour taste with a slight richness that works really well in dressings. It also gives the dressing a darker colour and helps coat the ingredients evenly, bringing all the flavours together nicely.

Now, at the risk of sounding like a bit of a foodie snob, I do think the quality of the tamarind paste makes a real difference here. I use a particular variety from Steenbergs, which I’ve only ever seen once in a shop and usually buy via Amazon. It is quite pricey, but a little goes a long way.

Once you’ve tried this recipe, I am sure it will become a firm favourite for you too!  A proper “rinse and repeat” in our house.

Let me know what you think!

Roasted butternut squash & Bulgar Salad – 120 calories

Preparation Time:              25 mins

Cooking Time:                    45 mins

Serves:                                   7

Calories per serving:          120

 

Ingredients

Red Onion                                                                  –    180g

Butternut Squash, Raw                                          –    800g

Red pepper                                                               –    One whole

Sumac Spice Mix                                                     –    6g

Bulgur Wheat, Dry Weight                                   –    100g

Olive Oil, Extra Virgin                                           –    12ml

Concentrated Tamarind Paste,
Concentrated, Steenbergs                                    –    3 tsps/6g

Fresh mint leaves, chopped                                 –    4 tbsps/6.4g

Method

Pre-heat oven to 200 degrees.

Peel and chop the butternut squash into 1.5cm cubes.

Remove the stalk and core, and cut the red pepper into 1.5cm cubes. Peel chop the onion into chunks.

Put 15ml of the oil into a roasting dish and place in the oven to heat. After 10 minutes, add the chopped butternut. Stir until coated with the oil. Place into the centre of the oven for 15 minutes. Then add the onion and pepper, sprinkle over the sumac, and stir to ensure everything is coated in the oil. Continue roasting for 10-15 minutes.

Once the oven roasted vegetables are cooked (softened and beginning to char) remove from the oven and add the tamarind paste – stir through to combine.

Cook the bulgar wheat according to the packet instructions. I cook mine in a microwave rice steamer for around 15 minutes, stirring halfway through.  When cooked, drain thoroughly.

Once the bulgar wheat has cooled slightly, add it to the roasted vegetable mix and stir through, combining evenly.

Chop the fresh mint (place leaves in a shallow cup and chop with kitchen scissors – makes it very quick and easy!) Sprinkle onto the salad and stir through.

This can be eaten warm or cold as a salad. Filling and very tasty!

Nutrition Data Per Serving

Calories (kcal)       120.9

Protein (g)             2.8

Carbohydrate (g)   23.1

Fat (g)                  2.2

Fibre (g)                3.6

Fruit & Veg            1.6

Carrot, apple, date, pecan and lime salad – 73 calories

I mentioned in my last blog post that I’d be sharing some salad ideas.  Over the coming weeks, I plan to share some of my favourite salad recipes. From quick everyday lunches to more substantial salads that make a complete meal, these are the kinds of dishes I never seem to tire of.

This first salad is a carrot, apple, date, pecan and lime salad. It’s refreshing, colourful and has a whole lot of flavour and texture going on. The natural sweetness of the carrot, combined with a small quantity of chopped dates, works beautifully, whilst the coconut and lime juice add an almost tropical flavour. The pecans add a lovely crunch to the dish.

I tend to make a batch of this and serve a small portion alongside other salad dishes I prepare, along with a regular green salad. When I say “green” salad, that usually consists of lettuce, cucumber, celery, red onion, red pepper, radish, apple, tomatoes and coriander.

The beauty of salads is that they can be prepared in advance, are easy to transport for a day out, and take quite a while to munch and crunch through, which somehow makes lunch feel like a much more leisurely occasion.

Carrot, apple, date, pecan and lime salad

Preparation Time:      10 minutes

Serves:                        8

Calories per serving:  72.3

 

Ingredients

Raw Carrots, Peeled        –  500g

Dates, Dried                     –  35g

Pecan Nuts, Halved        –  25g

Desiccated Coconut        –  15g

Lime Juice, Fresh           –  1 Lime Juiced/50ml

Eating Apple, Fresh       –  1 Apple /120g

Fresh Coriander             –  1 Bunch/20g

 

Method

Peel and coarsely grate the carrot. Core the apple, cut into bite-sized pieces.

Roughly chop the dates and pecans. Juice the lime. Chop the coriander.

Combine all the ingredients and mix thoroughly to ensure everything is evenly coated with lime juice.

Store in a sealed container in the fridge.  This will store for around 5 to 6 days.

Nutrition Data Per Serving

Calories (kcal)            73

Protein (g)                  1.1

Carbohydrate (g)         9.0

Fat (g)                         3.6

Fibre (g)                      2.5

Fruit & Veg                 1.3